Premature ejaculation really has a way of taking the wind out of a man’s sails. At first, a man can feel like he’s in total control, bringing pleasure to his partner and being able to control his ability to last between the sheets. But when premature ejaculation rears its ugly head, lovemaking sessions can become seconds long affairs, leading to a man feeling downright powerless.
This powerless feeling can lead to men desperately searching for a way to regain control. There are plenty of home remedies proposed for men dealing with PE, such as numbing condoms or topical creams, but that’s not always enough. But one of the most effective ways to last long when you are afflicted with PE is also one of the simplest: The stop-and-go method.
The stop-and-go method sounds obvious, but it truly can do wonders for men with premature ejaculation. The method is simple: When engaging in intercourse, a man needs to be able to tell when he’s “almost there.” When this feeling starts to bubble up, withdraw. Pull out, sit back, and catch your breath. When this feeling begins to subside, get back to work.
Simple as that. Wait for the feeling, withdraw, relax, resume. The only real work the method requires is being able to gauge when you are reaching the tipping point. Learn to identify what it feels like when you are approaching climax, and this will allow you to disengage at just the right moment.
If you are dealing with PE and you feel as though your sex life is shot, give the stop-and-go a spin. Once you’ve got it down to a science, your sex life will be saved, and your partner will thank you.